feat: API Endpoints to update message status (#11387)

- Added an api endpoint for update message status ( available only for
api inboxes )
- Moved message status management to a service. 
- Handles case where read status arrive before delivered 

fixes: #10314 , #9962

config/routes.rb

@@ -98,7 +98,7 @@ Rails.application.routes.draw do
               post :filter
             end
             scope module: :conversations do
-              resources :messages, only: [:index, :create, :destroy] do
+              resources :messages, only: [:index, :create, :destroy, :update] do
                 member do
                   post :translate
                   post :retry